When considering the pillars of Exodus 90—prayer, asceticism, and fraternity—we might view fraternity as secondary. Yet, Scripture reminds us of its profound importance. St. John writes:
“We know that we have passed out of death into life, because we love the brethren” (1 John 3:14).
Fraternity is more than fellowship; it is essential for growing in freedom and holiness. It equips us to support others while receiving the help we need to follow Christ authentically.
Why Fraternity Matters
In today’s world, many men live isolated lives, leaving them vulnerable to temptation and spiritual stagnation. While casual friendships—like those centered on sports or leisure—are valuable, Christian fraternity goes deeper. It involves:
• Authentic Accountability: Having brothers who truly know you and what you’re going through.
• Spiritual Support: Encouraging each other in faith and holiness.
• A Sacred Space: Sharing openly without fear of judgment.
Exodus fraternities provide this space for men to grow together, free from the superficial pressures of worldly masculinity.
The Role of Weekly Fraternity Meetings
Dedicating time to fraternity can be challenging for married men who balance work and family life, but it’s essential. These weekly meetings are opportunities to step away from distractions and reconnect with what truly matters.
What Happens in a Meeting?
Fraternity meetings are structured with a guide that fosters honest and meaningful conversations. Discussions aren’t meant to be shallow or focused solely on ascetic disciplines. Instead, they explore deeper questions like:
• How is God working in your life?
• What struggles are you facing beneath the surface?
• Where are you encountering idols that need to be confronted?
Though the first few weeks may feel awkward, perseverance is key. Over time, these gatherings become a source of strength and encouragement.
Daily Check-Ins with Your Anchor
Between weekly meetings, accountability continues through daily check-ins with your anchor—a designated brother committed to walking alongside you. These brief conversations, facilitated by the Exodus 90 app, ensure consistent support and accountability.
Being a good anchor involves more than checking a box. It means genuinely supporting your brother, offering a listening ear, and stepping in with extra encouragement when needed. Sometimes, this might mean going beyond the app—making a call or meeting in person.
Inviting New Brothers into the Fraternity
It’s never too late to invite another man into your fraternity. Whether at the start of Exodus 90, during Lent, or beyond, the door is always open.
Here are a few tips for extending an invitation:
1. Pray First: Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you to the right person.
2. Say “No” for No One: Invite the man God places on your heart, even if he isn’t practicing his faith or seems unlikely to join.
3. Expect Surprises: While some may decline, you’ll be amazed by those who say “yes” and whose lives are transformed through Exodus.
Remember, fraternity isn’t about gathering perfect men—it’s about journeying together toward holiness. By inviting others, you’re not only changing lives but making an eternal impact.
The Eternal Impact of Fraternity
Christian brotherhood has the power to alter lives, families, and even communities. Fraternity fosters genuine freedom and encourages men to live boldly for Christ.
As you embrace fraternity in Exodus 90, you’ll grow in your relationship with God and others. Through prayerful accountability, honest conversations, and consistent support, your fraternity will become a vital source of strength on your journey to freedom and holiness.
